Some people seem to get all the breaks. All they have to do is walk into a room and they have others eating out of the palm of their hand. What is their secret? Pheromones. You may have never heard of these odorless chemicals but they have a powerful effect on the people around you.
Pheromones have been scientifically-proven to influence social behavior, mating, dating, and parental response. It has been proven that both men and women who give off certain types of pheromones enjoy greater success in business and more respect all around.
Pheromones can give you the edge you need to step out of the shadows and finally get the respect and recognition you deserve.
Why People Don’t Respect You
- You Don’t Believe in Yourself
The number one reason people don’t respect you and walk all over you like a cheap doormat is because you don’t believe in yourself. You’re not alone. A lot of people lack confidence, usually because of they way they were treated in childhood.
If you were shy, small or weak as a child, chances are, you were picked on by your peers and misunderstood by your caregivers. This can very easily carry over into your adult life if you don’t wake up and realize you’re in control now.
Think of all the things you like about yourself and focus on them. The moment you open your eyes in the morning, tell yourself how amazing you are. This is called positive self-talk. Even if it sounds silly at first, do it. “I am a confident man.” “I am a beautiful woman.” “People like and respect me.” “I’m good with money.” “I’m great in bed.” Whatever it takes. Repeat these mantras to yourself over and over until you believe them.
The more you believe in yourself, the more others will as well.
- You Have No Follow-Through
If people can’t take you seriously, they won’t respect you. This is why nobody likes a braggart. Braggarts talk about how amazing they are and all the things they’re planning to do but they never actually do them. Don’t be that type of person or you’ll never get the respect you need and deserve. If you say you’re going to do something, get it done. People respect those they can count on.
- You Think You’re a God/Goddess
Running around barking orders like you own the place isn’t going to make people respect you. It will do one of two things: Either make them fear you or make them laugh at you or maybe a little of both. To make people respect you, step down off your high horse. People want to know you’re one of them and can lead when necessary. They’re not looking for someone to worship.
- You Never Apologize
Apologizing for a wrong-doing is not a sign of weakness; it’s a sign of strength. If you want people to respect you, you need to own up to your mistakes. This doesn’t mean that you should apologize when unnecessary or worse, grovel. But acknowledging a mistake is much better than being defensive or making excuses.
- You Don’t Smell Right
Pheromones play a huge role in the way others view you. If you don’t smell right, it won’t matter how good you look or what kind of financial position you’re in, people won’t respect you. Studies have confirmed that higher levels of testosterone coupled with low levels of cortisol (the stress hormone) establish your dominance.
How Pheromones Make People Respect You
Alpha 7 for Men is the best pheromone product to make people respect you. With Alpha 7, you’ll instantly take command of every situation you’re in. When you wear this pheromone, you’ll instantly feel more confident and in control of your life. Alpha 7 gives you the aura of a man who knows what he wants and knows how to get it.
Alpha 7 for Women works just like Alpha 7 for men only it’s formulated just for women. It contains androstenone and androsterone that makes those around you stand up and take notice. Both men and women will notice something different about you. With this perfume, you’re confident and in control in a way you never thought possible.
If you don’t want to come on too strong, you can also improve the way people treat you by increasing their trust in you. One, remember to follow through on your promises. Two, convince them you’re trust-worthy with oxytocin. Oxytocin is the trust and social bonding pheromone that makes people feel more comfortable and open around you.
Edge Trust for Men and Edge Trust for Women are the ideal pheromones for businesspeople who need to make a certain impression. They’re subtle enough to be understated yet powerful enough to make a real difference in the way others view you. Both versions of Edge Trust contain potent amounts of oxytocin to make those around you respect and believe what you have to say.
Continue to Gain Respect from Others
- Expect Respect
To get respect from others, you have to expect it. If you believe others will treat you poorly, they will. If you expect others to treat you well, they will. It’s all about the Law of Attraction.
- Respect Others
You reap what you sow. If you want others to respect you, respect them. Respect their time and decisions and ask for their advice every once in the while, (even if you don’t take it).
- Honor What You Say
I can’t stress this enough. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Don’t back out. If you think you can’t keep a promise, just don’t make one.
- Don’t Gossip
You may enjoy the appearance of camaraderie when you’re gossiping around the office but don’t do it. It makes you look bad. People won’t respect you if they feel they can’t trust you with their confidences.
- Be Yourself
Trying to be someone you’re not will never win you any real friends or respect. Plus, you’ll exhaust yourself trying to keep up the act. Just be yourself. Quirky trumps fake every time.
Yes, you can make people respect you. All it takes is for you to change the way you view yourself and treat others. The right pheromone product can give you the edge you need to make the transition from doormat to leader in no time.
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