How to Get Her in the Mood

Written by Dave Rich

On November 30, 2012

No matter where you on in a relationship with a woman, there are certain things you can do to get her in the mood. Whether you’re meeting her for the first date or you’ve been together for years, the secret to turning her on is confidence. Use these techniques and she may just be the one jumping you!

How to Turn Her on When You’re Just Getting to Know Her

  1. Turn Your Cell Phone Off in Front of Her

This may seem like a strange way to turn women on but it works. When you meet her for a date, let her know you want to spend time with just her by making it a point to turn your cell phone off in front of her. This will send a subtle message of confidence and control on your part. You’re letting her know you don’t need to know what’s going on at work or with your friends right now. You’re with her and you want to really drink her in.

  1. Talk With Your Body

When you’re just getting to know a woman, she reads your body language and facial expressions to see what type of guy you are. First, stand up straight and tall. This lets her know you’re confident and comfortable in your surroundings. Second, make the right type of eye contact. Don’t stare her down or look too intimidating. “Soft and strong” eyes are best. They tell the woman you’re interested in that you’re in control but know how to be tender.

  1. Whisper a Specific Compliment

The key to turning her on is by giving her a specific compliment. Just telling her she’s beautiful or her dress looks great on her isn’t enough. Find something specific and unique to her that turns you on. Does she have a fleck of gold in her green eyes? An interesting freckle? Lean in and whisper to her how attractive you think her unique feature is. Whispering gives an air of intimacy and your specific compliment will make her weak in the knees.

  1. Use “You” Statements

When you’re fooling around, instead of telling her, “That feels so good”, say, “You feel so good”. The first tells her you’re just interested in sex while the second let’s her know you’re interested in her. It gives an atmosphere of intimacy and makes her want to please you more.

  1. Tell Her What You’re Going to Do

A man in control of a sexual situation can really put her in the mood. If things are getting hot and heavy, tell her what you’re going to do next. This gives her a sense of safety and let’s her know you respect her but it also tells her you’re a take-charge kind of guy. “I’m going to unzip this” is a lot sexier than, “Can I unzip this?” It may seem like the polite thing to do but it will turn you into a little boy in her eyes faster than she can say, “Oh, look at the time.”

How to Get Her in the Mood When You’re in a Relationship

  1. Fix Something Around the House

There’s nothing sexier to a woman than a man who knows how to fix stuff around the house. When you see what needs to be done and take care of it without her having to ask, she feels safe, loved, and protected. That relaxed feeling of being provided for by her man can very easily translate to some hanky panky that night!

  1. Make Her a Sensual Meal

You can also turn her on by making her a sensual meal. Women love comfort food. Macaroni and cheese, mashed potatoes, and chocolate release feel-good chemicals in the brain and make her more relaxed and open to sex. If you really want to get her in the mood, cook her favorite foods in front of her. It provides a sense of nurturing and shows you really care about pleasing her.

  1. Give Her a Massage

When we say massage, we don’t mean a five-second rubdown you hope leads to sex. You have to actually get into it here. This means lighting a few candles, putting on some soft music, and breaking out the massage oil. A slow, sensual massage will put her in the mood every time.

  1. Sext Her in Public

Sexting is a great way to keep the romance alive in your long-term relationship. The next time you’re out in public somewhere, send her a seductive message letting her know what you’d love to be doing to her right now. This will get her mind focused on sex and the delayed gratification will heighten the desire.

  1. Experiment with Pheromone Colognes

Another way to get her in the mood is to experiment with pheromone colognes. Pheromone colognes for men turn women on in a subtle, animalistic way. Humans and animals all emit pheromones to indicate attraction and sexual interest. Wearing the right type of pheromone cologne can boost your natural testosterone scent and improve your sex life in a long-term relationship. She won’t know what’s changed about you but she won’t be able to resist!

Putting her in the mood doesn’t have to be a complicated process. Just a few subtle changes in body language and approach can be all you need to get (and keep) her interest.

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