While attracting a woman can be a complicated exercise, attracting a man is fairly straightforward. Put him in a room full of women and he’ll automatically gravitate or respond the best to the most attractive woman there. But if he has competition, he’ll either start competing for the best or settling for slightly less.
It can be argued that there are different layers of attractiveness, but there’s no denying that physical attractiveness is initially the most powerful. If you’re an average looking woman vying for the attention of one man, chances are, he’s already encountered a few above average-looking women that he’s already set his sights on. If that is the case, what can you do to help improve your attractiveness?
The answer is simple. You need to improve your attractiveness. Certainly, physical attraction is the most powerful attractant to a man. This is why women wear makeup and pretty clothes. It enhances their physical attractiveness. But what if you had a way to circumvent that?
Get the Basics Down First
Of course, it pays to get the basics down first. Good grooming and fashion sense should be high on your priority for attracting men. Why? Because physical attraction in men is triggered almost entirely by visual cues. However, just because men like curves doesn’t mean you should leave little to the imagination. In fact, it should be quite the opposite. According to ILoveRelationship.com:
“You need to find a compromise between showing and hiding your womanly qualities. It’s the right combination that makes the secret. I like women, who enhance certain body regions without actually showing anything. Steer clear of the obvious. It is very important that you actually feel sexy. And don’t forget some killer-lingerie and sexy accessories like bracelets and necklaces.”
It’s a small thing, but you would be surprised at how many men are attracted to women who smile more. After all they are much more approachable and easier to be around. LovePanky.com says:
“It’ll make you seem good natured and happy, which will draw him to you. But don’t overdo the smiling by making it obvious that you’ve got a thing for him.”
The Power of Scent
While visual cues are best for getting immediate and direct attention, don’t ignore the power of scent. A sexy scent is much more subtle and requires you to be up close and personal with the person you want to attract. In fact, according to ILoveRelationship.com:
“In a survey 89 % of the men revealed that the scent can enhance the attractiveness of a women. 55 % of those polled men went a little further and admitted that they would get amorous with a women just because of her appealing scent.”
Initiate Touch and Invite Him to Touch Back
Once you get into a deep enough conversation, show some interest. Get close enough where there can be a lot of accidental touching. After all, there’s nothing more confidence inducing than the lingering touch. Create circumstances where it’s okay for him to touch you. Every now and then you can pick up some fluff from his jacket, lean forward every now and then, or push your fingers through your hair. If you’re seated next to him, you can lean against him and let your legs accidentally touch. These should seem subtle enough that it’s as if you’re not thinking about them. Some men know the power of touch enough that they might actually beat you to the touching part, but others need to be pushed in the right direction.